Prayer changes things…we have all heard that phrase, but have we personally seen change take place in our lives as a result of praying to God? If not, why? Are we missing something are we praying for the wrong things? So much uncertainty seems to be centered on prayer are we doing it right, asking the right things, having the right motives, etc. In our culture of fast-paced living, is effective prayer a “process” that takes too long for our short attention spans? Perhaps. So why is prayer so difficult for us, and why don’t we see the change we seek?
A portion of the answer has already been revealed. Our culture is fast-paced, with limited time to slow down and enjoy the Lord’s presence. None of us like that fact, but it doesn’t make it untrue just because we don’t like it. We want everything NOW, and anything that takes time becomes neglected. Instead of spending time praying and building our relationship with Christ, we give Him short one-liners, or repetitious coveralls to cover our bases. Great, we’ve spent 5 minutes in prayer today, awesome! Am I trying to belittle these prayers, no. Am I just pointing out things other people do, no, because I do them also.
The point is, God really does desire a deeper relationship with us through our prayer time with Him, and He wants to reveal things to us that He will only do when we slow down our lives and take the time to listen to Him. I am not saying you need to lock yourself in a room for 5 hours a day…that would be great, but it is very impractical for most of us. And let’s be honest, most of us would fall asleep within the first 15 minutes anyway. The answer lies in spending time with Him regularly in prayer where we share our heart with Him. We should choose to go deeper with Him, sharing our hearts
not just the “be with” and “bless…” prayers. Genuine prayer is definitely not a “process,” some formula that states “as long as we say the right things in a certain way, God will rain down his blessing and approval.” God is definitely interested in our heart, and what is genuine. That takes time. Maybe that is 5, 15, 30 minutes a day, or hours a day. We can certainly draw near to Him throughout the day with several short prayer times…nothing wrong with that. The main point is, we need to spend time talking to Him in prayer, and being still and quiet to let Him speak to us
that will change our lives. The fact that many of us don’t see great results from God is because we choose to spend so little time getting to know Him and seeking His direction. We spend far too much time trying to “find our way” in a myriad of other things that take up our time, and we know it.
So how do we learn to pray? One great way is to look into the lives of believers who accomplished great things through their prayer lives. We can learn what concerns touch the heart of God, and what moves His Spirit in response. We can learn how prayer can bring real change to our lives. There are many things in life that truly can ONLY be changed through prayer. A couple of eBooks that address these concerns and can help all of us grow closer to the Lord through prayer are: The 21 Most Effective Prayers of the Bible, Lord, Please Help Me to Change, E.M. Bounds: Man of Prayer, Let God Talk to You, and Pray Big. There are some great tools and insights within these resources to help focus your prayer life, to discover real change and purpose, and to experience a deeper relationship with your Savior.

























